

Your kid needs alone time just like you—to explore their own thoughts, to practice motor skills without your help, and to engage in open-ended, unstructured play. This is when they’ll learn to tell themselves stories, invent games, and be their own friend—skills you just can’t teach any other way! Explore these benefits of independent play.

1
Emotional regulation
Independent play provides your child with a safe space to decompress with their most trusted inner circle (of plushie friends). It also gives them a chance to practice self-soothing when their block towers inevitably topple—and you’re not there to comfort them.

2
Imagination
When your child controls the pace and focus of play, their creativity flourishes! Whether they’re finding new uses for old toys, playing pretend with spare pots and pains, or inventing stories about their fearless stuffed bunny, kids benefit from unguided self-directed play.

3
Social independence
When your baby is old enough to play with other kids, they’ll find that playmates don’t always agree with each other. If your child learns to entertain themselves, they won’t feel isolated if no one else wants to play what they’re playing.

4
Skill mastery
When you’re a playtime participant, your child may fall back on your help to solve puzzles or stack blocks for them. When playing alone, they’re more likely to exercise their growing motor control, cognitive skills, and persistence to solve their own problems.

5
School skills
Your little one is going to start school in a few years—and you can’t go with them. Independent play today helps your child get used to the idea that their favorite person can’t always be physically beside them, but they’ll still be okay!